Hi, it’s me. I’m the Problem.
My son was not even two years old when he cupped my face in his tiny hands and whispered, “It’s okay, Momma. It will be okay.”
I will never forget that moment.
It broke my heart and woke me up.
I was slipping his shoes on, about to take him to my mom’s before heading into another long day at work. Tears streamed down my face as the stress from my job spilled over into my home life.
He was comforting me. I knew in that instant: I had the power to change. I had to change. My sweet, precious little boy should not have felt the need to comfort me. I appreciate the goodness in his soul, the generosity, and want to be my best, FOR HIM.
When I Finally Faced the Truth
I was working 50+ hours a week at a job that rented my skills but never saw my value.
I burned the candle at both ends and right through the middle.
My health, my marriage, my son… all of them were suffering.
I had been crying over a job that was never going to give me what I was pouring into it.
And the hardest thing to admit?
It wasn’t the job that was the problem.
It was me.
I was letting the job control my life.
I was the one without clear boundaries.
I was the one not communicating with my husband.
I was the one holding myself back.
It was easier to blame my job, but the truth was I was staying stuck because of me.
The Turning Point
The moment I stopped looking outward and started taking ownership of my choices, everything shifted.
Now, I can listen.
Now, I can hear.
Now, I can be present with the people who matter most.
The Hardest Truth Sets You Free
Every problem has layers.
Sometimes the hardest truth is the one that frees us:
You can’t solve what you aren’t willing to own.
That was my turning point. It can be yours too.
If you’re ready to uncover what’s really holding you back, if you’re ready to break free, book a mini-session with me. In 30 minutes, we’ll dig in and start solving the problem that’s been solving you.